Thanks for that Kate, yes, we're real talkers too. I like to wear my heart on my sleeve and usually people know how I feel!! LOL!!

I never want him to give up his footy, because that would be just awful and he would resent me, but its all the other stuff that goes along with it that he doesn't need to do that annoys me, instead of him wanting to spend time with us, he always seems to have something else to do, whether its training, touch footy, oz tag or mowing the lawn, and then when he has a free afternoon, he usually phones and tells me he's going to the pub for a few on his way home on a Friday arvo. That frustrates the hell outta me!! What if I wanna go and do something? Im very sporty too, and at the moment I am very restricted and can't play any sports because he's out almost every night, I think that's probably why Im going a bit stir crazy, because I'm used to going out and playing sport and now that I can't Im a bit mental!! LOL!!

I guess its just something I'll have to get used to now...

I just don't want Coby to become dependent on me alone (like you said) I mean, what would happen if something happened to me???