Can I ask you ladies at what age did your kids stop having a night-time bottle? & also when did they stop having regular daytime naps?

James is still having a bottle at nite & lots of people have started to make comments that he shouldn't be having them any more, I asked my Mum & she said it didn't matter that he was still having one at nite but so many others have made comments that it makes me wonder if I'm doing something wrong.

Thanx for any help & please don't feel that you have to answer. I'm really just looking for some rough guidelines as to what I should be doing & when. It would be so much easier if kids came with some sort of instructions as to what to do & when.