Mooshie I am not offended at all by what you said. I had thought of it and even though I know I would consider termination for a severe mental or physical disorder, I just know that I could not do it for CF. Even though I know the health concerns are huge for Cf'ers, they still have a normal, productive and fulfilled life. Alana can still go to school, go and get a job, live by herself, get married and even have children of her own. I'm just not sure that its the same.

But like you said Michelle it is the emotional side of it that is the hardest.

I guess if we a questioning whether to have another or not, its probably best to wait. You never know in a couple of years we might change our minds and it might be a better time for us.

Thanks guys.