Thanks for the advice everyone. I have calmed down a bit now. I asked DH if he thought I was over-reacting about the 2 issues and he said 'yes'. So I asked him if I should just drop it - and he said 'no'. hahaha - talk about getting someone to do your dirty work. He very kindly said that I knew her best and that I should do what I think is right. So I will get the tongue-tie doctor to look/assess her and only do the snip if he thinks it is necessary. If he says not necessary or to wait then I can live with that cause that is his area of expertise.

In regards to being spewy - I think that maybe I just wanted to know what it was and today the doctor said that it is 'reflux' whereas in the past I was told that because she wasn't grizzly then it wasn't reflux and that she was just eating too much. I know about the thickener - not sure if I will try it or not - will look into it some more. Although it might also help stretch her out to 4 hourly feeds during the day (only just moved to 3 hourly from 2 hourly!!).

The spewed-on tally for me today is 5 bibs (good), 2 of my shirts (average) and 3 pairs of my pants (very bad)!! If I don't laugh about it, I'll cry!!

Good night everyone.