there's a couple of little hints at whether he wants a feed or not... i can usually tell (Jen's not quite so good at it). There's a few times I've been up to change him and have picked he doesn't want one... like at 5.30 this morning (well he'd only been down an hour since his last feed, and that was a fairly big one... nappy change, then he scoffed the 100ml of formula, big burp, and passed out in under 30 minutes

another question - anyone tried those baby swings ?? We've just ordered the FisherPrice aquarium one... arrives tomorrow