Hi Girls!
Thanks for the loneliness support - dont feel like such a looser!
Yay good news for me - we just walked up to the local church (its baptist so I was a bit scared at first that it would be church goers only, as we are non-religous) and met a lovely lady in the car park that runs the playgroup! Its twice a week and about 200m from our house!!! Yay yay yay! Might actually meet some mums - so excited - am mentally picking out Beau's outfit as we speak! And she said its mostly mums that arent in the church. I also just emailed DH a list of the strollers I like that have one hand fold so we can get on the bus easier without B freaking out that he cant see me while I collapse the pram! Hopefully he will feel inspired and go and get one! Why are all the cool ones so incredibly expensive?

Mel - Even though you are a bit weird about the cleaning - I hear you, I get funny too if the house isnt magazine ready! I change the house around once a week - thats my OCD! Even if I know no-one will drop in, I always clean everything and get dressed, put make up on etc, I think its a good thing to be a bit anal about anyway! As long as you arent running yourself ragged that is. Glad Becca put some weight on, hope she continues too - you sound a bit more confident with bf'ing, hope the LC is really helpful, what a weight off your mind if all the bf'ing goes well and no bottles, formula, breast pump, sterilizing...urk! The babgiesgalore website has a twin pram section I saw this morning if you want to check them out. We havnt started headbanging but we have dog sitting and hitting!

Dis - Dont worry about the carrots - B is obsessed with cheese and milk and carbs! At least Ben's is a vege! It must be lovely to have such a nice relationship between your mum and Ben. He will miss your sis' bub too huh? Not too long before he will have one all his own at home anyway!

Kaz- Thanks for the library tip Kaz, might investigate that. Good luck at the docs!Hope you can TTC soon!

I am ovulating in a few days so DH and I are DTD like crazy trying for a bubbie girl are we supposed to stop (without protection IYKWIM) once I ovulate? Only do it in the lead up?