Lea, yep, I tore, 3rd degree, stitch up to anus apparently (sorry tmi!), I cant feel it up that high thankgoodness! It still hurts a bit especially when I've been sitting for a while, like when I feed. Everything is still a bit achey. But my birth happened so quickly I think my hoohaa is still in shock, LOL! And I passed some serious clots too. Big enough that I could feel them coming out, so probably the sixe of my hand I would guess. I passed them up to about 5 or 6 days after he was born. Nurse said it was ok as long as bleeding didn't get worse.
Lil's going ok wiht Liam. She is already protective of hime and when he sries she's over to him quick as quick. But she is clingy, and often wants up when I am feeding or holding him. But I guess thats to be expected...I hear you on them growing up over night too. Lily seems like such a big girl now when a fw weeks ago she was such a baby to me. I feel a bit sad about that.
Anyway, going to try to go to bed...I'm sooooo tired.