rachel - I think you can have sex when you have finished bleeding - as long as you are comfortable enough!!! I think we waited a few months last time from memory, and its funny but if I had had a natural birth and my pelvis was ok, I'd probably want to get pregnant again straight away!!! lol
I just want my baby making days over before I get too old.. time's a tickin!!
Kiwi girl. I agree fully with gudsim when your ready and comfortable. I have had sex as soon as 2.5 weeks after delivering before with a c section I was hungry for it. But have no intention this time round of going there.. im still healing and im not that interested just rather sleep. Hubbie doesn't mind he is to busy too and needs sleep so there is absolutely no pressure which is great. As for contraceptive pills im scared to much about the links to cancer so refuse to take anything and have done for last 8 years pretty much. I am a faith person and i just think if its ment to be it will be Every time i have tried to get pregnant i have within 1 and a half months. Last time was in nz when we tried and left new Zealand preggers with josiah. A moon light made baby on glinks gully around a bon fire.
Last edited by squidipa; August 18th, 2008 at 12:29 PM.
Aww that sounds like a nice romantic way to make a baby (except in my mind, the vision ends with someone reefing sand out of their butt crack.. lol)
I haven't even thought about protection yet... Jeesh.. don't even wanna think about it.. hate the pill.. hate condoms... but seem to fall pregnant quite easily if we use nothing (ie, first time trying for BOTH pregnancies...) so dunno what is left.. don't want needles, don't want anything "inserted"...
hmmm.... ok.. no sex seems to be the only option left....
ETA - Squidipa - where in Queensland are you from??
Gudism i am from caboolture area, we never had any sandy issues when making josiah altho i have heard alot of stories. Was kinda nice as hubbie was conceived on the same beach too Im with you on contraception but i also fall preggers easily i guess you could say but never unwanted
hehehe seems the gals in this group just need to think about sex and we fall pregnant!!
Although with this one, we actually wanted to get pregnant alot sooner - we tried for 6 months with no success and as soon as we gave up trying, *bang* it happened!
Cute pic in your ticker squidipa... caboolture isn't too far away from me, my sister lives in Morayfield at the moment, she is building a house at Narangba so will be moving soon.
And yes, it does seem like we should all avoid the wet patch in our beds.... lol
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Im with you on contraception but i also fall preggers easily i guess you could say but never unwanted
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