just popping in quickly - ive decided to just go with the flow at the moment too. Lochie seems to have a few good nights, then a bad one, then back to ok. Im happy with the way things are, he'll sleep more when he is ready. If there is one thing that having a child before him has taught me is that it doesnt last forever, I will get a full nights sleep again...one day...and he's so little right now. Im still not going to feed him everytime he wakes, but only because that doesnt seem to be what he needs. But ill get up to him and confort him, tuck him back in and stroke his face...whatever he needs to help him feel safe and secure and go back to sleep.