Thanks soph for your kind words ....and how good are you doing boot camp!. It must be nice to do something for yourself as I imagine you would not get much time for yourself anymore!. Glad to hear Lucies swelling is going down.

Trace your plan sounds great!. You know it was funny ....last night I was stressed out as we got locked out of the house and Kaitlyn was hungry and thirsty as we had just come home from daycare..then after we got in (1hour laterer) I had no time to cook her dinner so she had to have frozen left overs (defrosted of course!)..And I was just highly stressed as Kaitlyn was so upset ...anyway long story short I thought of you and thought ...what would tracey do ..heheh as you just seem to cope so well with all that is on your plate!!! So I smacked on a smile and got on with it ....funny though how I thought of you and it cheered me up ..so thank you !

ok ...off for a cuppa!