I get the "oh you must be busy" comments too and i've got a huuuuuuuge gap with my kids, i guess some ppl are cut out to do it and some ppl aren't, we should all pat ourselves on the back i think, it would be nice to hear comments like, oh that's lovely that you have a large family and there should be more of them or you're very lucky to have been able to have so many children orrrrrrrrrr wow you must have soooooo much fun with all your kids ........ why do ppl feel they have to make negative comments, i dunno when i hear of someone having a baby i congratulate them and be happy for them, it's their business how many they have ....... oops sorry went off an a tangent lol can u tell i've been here before hehehe.

Welcome Kelly.

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