Kat~ Please don't feel like you're being pathetic. I too felt I was too exhausted while BF. I figured if we were both happier and got more sleep with formula then it was the best choice for us.
We are using Karicare Gold. It must have been a good choice for us as William still poos everyday at least once.

Shine~ I will keep that info re: the colic medicine in mind. At the moment I don't need it , but you never know!! As I told Kat above, we're using Karicare Gold.
In my house the bath is daddys job, I'm not allowed to do it. He likes having his time with William and seems as I have never done it as it has always been daddys job from the start I think I would be too scared to do it now! But when it comes to everything else I like to do it all, I'm the same as you I freak out that he isn't burping him properly etc!

Sarah