Hey thanks girls, I'm sorry to offload and look like I'm saying I'm hard done by, I'm just really at a loss as to what to do lately, I feel like I'm raising two children..

MadB - That's great little Miriam is sleeping, even if it's only through the day - better than nothing right? Yeah the mail is coming through again thankfully!! I received my carrier and gave it a go yesterday while he was upset but he didn't calm in it at all, then gave it another shot today and it was the cutest thing, he was screaming and then the minute I put him in he looked up at me like "hey...this is alright..." it only lasted a while but he was really over tired so I didn't push it. We'll just ease into it slowly, but I think it's going to be a success! Thanks for the suggestion. Yeah I know it can be hard on the men too, and it's hard for them to adjust to sharing their partners but I let him have his full nights sleep, I am sleeping in the lounge so at least one of us can get some rest... you think that would show him that I care about him but noooo, not my DH. Every time we fight he says "if you don't like it here then leave" and I don't know where he gets that from as I actually never complain.. but other night I was so angry and upset cause I had Jacob crying and him yelling at me so I said "don't you get it? I leave and that means Jacob leaves too...!!" and he said "I'm not scared". I'm just fighting a losing battle here.

Cathie - I don't mind you asking. He is 29 later this year, old enough to know better. Glad to hear Charlie boy is still doing so well.