Hey Linz. Gee, your evenings are sounding pretty exhausting. Hopefully you find a settling technique that works for you and Laila. About the re-lactating... Chon mentioned another thread? Sounds like a good place to start I would check out the Adoptive breastfeeding section on the ABA forum as another first step. I think you would need to get on the 'harder' lactagogues, (but taking fenugreek and drinking Activite wouldn't hurt either) - I think there's one called motillium or something? You'd probably need a script for it. I think its a muscle relaxant or something, with a side effect of increasing lactation. Then you'd probably want to get yourself a good pump It'd be hard work, but Jo has showed us all that it is possible!
You are right, Chantal, our bodies are just amazing. Did you know that men can lactate?!?