Chon, I have always let my babies decide what they are doing, so I cant help you with routine changes sorry. We've got Zac into a routine , which we started when he was about 12 month old, when he understood abit more. But it has changed now at 18 months to suit him. If you wanted her to go to bed earlier maybe you could wake her up earlier at each feed through the day so that it works out her last feed is earlier too? I dunno really, I dont like it when Angel goes down early, she wakes up early. Last 2 nights she's gone down at 9 & woken up at 7 eeeeeeeeeegh I rather her having her last bottle around 11, so I get to sleep longer in the morning!
LOL at the IL's comparing Maya to your cousin!!