Kts: I tell Olivia NO quite firmly and explain why she can't.. for example she is always touching the stereo.. I can't move it so she has to learn that no she can;t touch/. I move her away and say NO you can't touch that because you will break it.. She is touching it less and less these days. Maybe goes near it 2-3 times a day

As for other things.. sometimes she will crack a tanty when putting her in her car seat.. We either ignore or say you have to do this and it will only be for a short time..