'ello my lovies
sorry i've been MIA...i'll explain :P

sterla : aww about oli..and YAY for driving again...its very strange not being able to drive isn't! glad to see Oli is growing!

MelanieKate: sounds like your man's agrowin'!

Anthiea: its quite cus i've been away! hehe

AFM: the long and short of it. daz ended up back in hospital with "failure to thrive". so they moniterd us for 2days (i staied with daz and didnt leave the hospital once) and then changed our ruteains as in daz went from getting 120mls per feed of EBM to 100. six times a day.(so saterday sunday he was having around 740mls aday to monday/tuesday having 600mls aday...) so we had a bad day monday and alright day tuesday and last night i've never seen him so bad. so i scared the pead into letting us go home when he asked how my night was last night i said "Bloody cruddy thats what my sons been going to bed hungry and not sleeping or settleing i walked the floor with him for almost 4hrs and he got maybe 45mins to an hours sleep his feeds where dismal." he asked what i would do and i said "feed him as often as he wants (provided that its a feed time) and within a ruteain. (and im thinking the sleep,feed,play,feed,sleep one works best!) and i told him i'd express as much as i could before each feed and give him that. plus if need be a top up for formular as i belived my body is doing what it should be and produseing differant quantitys of milk depending on the time of day. so he agreed and said that they'd keep a close eye on daz and i to make sure it works! which made me almost. as on monday i had a head on with a head of nurseing and my father almost got kicked off the ward for commenting that if daz was fully Bf how'd they know what to give him! she didnt have a reply and told dad to get out of her face...this was after i told her the weekend he was perfict and what they where doing was horrable and crule she told me what i was doing was failing to work and they needed darren to feed (i'm getting flustred thinking about it!)
but now im off to slowly wake up my daz and give him a bottle and see how we go (or wait until after 4 so he can have an hour and a halfs sleep before this feed as we woke him when we bought him home -again- from the hossy!) Ohh and the toung tie went really well...he now has a toung to poke out at me and Chris!