I dont want to be rude and start interfering in your group but your posts bring back so much memories!
Firstly,about bubs and prams.I had a 3 wheeler with bubs facing away from me as soon as she faced me she was content.I had to buy a new pram! Unfortunatley some bubs just like to be with mum so you will just have to keep having small trips in the pram until they get use to it!
When i first brought millana home from hospital i had a low milk supply and ended up having to bottle feed.She still wanted to be fed at least 3 hrly,even during the night.I then started to do last feed at 1030pm and she was alot more settled and eventually as she got older had another at 3am until she woke in the morning.
I got alot of assistance from Tizzie Hall,save our sleep.I just contacted her through her web.She sent me routines to follow and they were invaluable.I will use them for 2nd bubs too.
Anyway from the sounds of it you are all doing fantastic jobs and with my first was always on tenderhooks and hoping i was doing all the right
things.Keep perservering.The first 3-4 months are the hardest but you will come through!