He is saying hello, but it is just the sound, not the word. Sadly, he hates brain surgery, or he did in the womb - I attended a brain surgery lecture and video and the little love played up the entire time. When he's in bed with me, it usually is just feed and sleep, for which I'm grateful. If he won't feed too well t's due to a wet nappy (like at 5am today) so I change it. After 5.30 is risky though as it's light enough for him to think daytime then.

Have to agree with the cleaning - cleaning up after my boys (DH & DS) takes ages; DH could help out, I get narked because he needs nagging to even wash up from dinner when he sees me tired and crying! I wish DH would be left with DS; he puts him in front of a DVD and goes out if I try it!