CATE - I"m sorry that your relationship has ended. But on the flip-side, I'm glad that El is now going to have two parents who are stressed less & are much more happier, & that happiness will rub off on her. It's good that you are both amicable & you will be living close by where El still has constant contact with her Daddy. When do you start work?

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA!!!!!!! Your DH is a super-star baking you the cake! Did you get some nice pressies?