jo-that would be great,i need help with the housework not nixon sleeping..hehe however if i can get him into the same routine u can and read the tired signs it be great,today n tonight success easy to put down,,,he wouldnt even self settle last night afte his 4 hour sleep and wake up for 2am feed,woke up bottle,bum change and awake,,i think today has worked much better as he been going down for 4 hour sleeps and awake 90mins to 2 hours,,i cant get up at 7 or 8am as im feeling toooo crook,the middle of the night feeds/wake up kill me,even if joe feeds him,he cries i wake up,im not having daytime naps as my metabolism is up the creek and im sped up.once i can get me right,might be able to get him right,im gonna try my darndest to get him doing well,last 2 nights he been sleeping by 730pm,please email me over your routine,i got a tizzie hall one but if you got a different one im keen.i think too also we been at fault as we been putting him in the car most days as i still am running my business and am driving over to my in-laws,he has a arvo sleep im car,,im really gonna start the 8am get up and start the day routine as of tomorrow,even though we have a long trip i can still implement the feed,play sleep,i cant read nixons tired signs,hunger i have a rough idea cos he grizzly ands mouths for food,tired i sorta can,eyes glazy,fidgety etc.,,
i feel to blame for this as i have just been out of the house and doing whatever willy nilly,i couldnt stay inside all the time to start the routine as i was going cuckoo being inside but now realise i have to do this and get him in a pattern or at 3 months onwards ill be paying for it..i feel like ive let him down,i just wish i wasnt so sick n fatigued so i could do what im supposed to.
they have a sleep school/mother baby unit that i can go to at my private hospital where i gave birth if i cant get my routine to work,i gotta iron me out 1st b4 ironing Nixon out,so far hes not too bad,we have had way more good nights that bad,about 5 bad nights in 4 and a half weeks so i shouldnt complain.
Sorry for the long rant,just need to get it off my chest and feel and hope im doing the right thing,
Jo- your so blessed with Caleb.
Last edited by soniebon; February 20th, 2009 at 09:04 PM.
Ava has put on 120g in two days!!! My LC came over today to weigh her and if she hadn't put on weight we were going to have to put her on FF top up's which I was upset about but now we don't have to!! She's done so well the last 5 days! She's finally at her birth weight now, well just above it - now 3.68 kg!! I'm so proud.
Still expressing after feeds and topping up with expressed BM and my nipples are still very sore and tender but we are getting there day by day. So proud of us!!!
And she's a MUCH more settled baby too. We don't even think she has colic anymore she was just a hungry baby the first 2 weeks as she wasn't getting enough milk (which I feel soooo bad about).
Last night she fed and just fell back asleep each time so it was a great night.
Hopefully tonight is the same!!
Ava doesn't sleep much during the day either, I know a few of you have been saying that about your bubs too.... its frustrating esp as I am so tired during the day. But at the moment if she's sleeping well at night then I don't mind too much. ALthough I always did think a newborn would sleep, eat, sleep, eat but Ava doesn't!!! She is wide awake most of the day!!!!
Gypsy- that was Ava who hadnt poo'd in 2 days it was bad.....cos meant she wasnt getting enuf of my milk..... i was sooooo glad to see her poo!!!!!!! dirty nappies dont bother us. lol. had a whopper today!!!!
Gotta go express now.... takes up so much time but i have to. either feeding, expressing or settling LOL
Hope everyone is doing really well sounds like most of you are.....
Ren: I have also been having the tailbone pain when sitting and when getting up and it is driving me crazy! I googled childbirth+tailbone and the first website gave me some good info on what we are going through and then there is a report under the information from someone who has some answers -under erin. It sounds like it may have some thing to do with our pelvic floor which i suspected as if I try to move those muscles it changes the pain. I also have a contact for a physio who specialises in this area and I am hoping she can help me with some exercises and/or refer me to someone. Have a read but I think it might be a good idea to see a physio if does not get better. It has been three weeks for me and it is not making any improvement and sometimes feels worse.
I am going pretty well with Emily but getting sick of being covered in milk and smelling like milk. The nipple sheild makes it worse and milk pools in it and then either spills out when she comes off or she knocks it off and I get milk everywhere. It is very frustrating. Sleeping is ok nights are the best but she is daily having times where she won't sleep between feeds and just wants to cry. We are experimenting with different ways to settle her. She is crying right now.. and I am trying to let her settle. Also bought a dummy today. I am not that keen on the idea but thought it is worth having some in the house but just tried it and she spat it out..not at all interested.
Gotta go...finding it hard to hear her cry. Hope you are all doing well
Hi everyone - thanks for all of the updates of your bubs.
Sam is doing well. We have now put a radio in his room and it is going 24/7 - he just seems more settled if there is a constant noise and especially when it's music. Sam is so alert sometimes now so we've been reading lots of books and I bought a few hand puppets too. He's even given me a few little smiles over the last week, they don't last long but it is such a good feeling when it happens (and it's not because he's about to fill his pants because until now that's what the smiles had been all about).
DH is now back at work, I'm coping ok though because I spent a few weeks on my own when I first come home from hossie as DH's holidays were booked for when Sam was due. It's just hard now when I want to nip into the supermarket quickly, no such thing as a quick trip with a baby.
I've just about finished putting together my pregnancy scrap book, Sam's baby book and his photo album. I had fun putting them all together and found it quite emotional actually. Re-living it all really. I even wrote my birth story last night (anyone interested you'll find it in birth stories) and I got really emotional doing that.
I've spoken to the priest at our church and am currently making arrangements for Sam's christening. I just need to set a date. Waiting until we get a settlement date on the house now as we will have sooo much more room at the new house (not looking forward to the packing though but will just chip away at it bit by bit). Have chosen a gorgeous christening gown so now need to find someone to make it for us. Godparents are my sister and her husband and DH's sister and her husband. It is going to be a beautiful day, I am really enjoying planning this day for him.
I went out today and forgot to wear breast pads - oooh dear. Luckily I was wearing the baby-bjorn because I was standing at the counter in spotlight and felt a really strong letdown. Oh dear, valuable lesson learnt! Should put a few emergency ones in my handbag.
Ren - yay for you persevering with BF. I just joined the ABA actually because I'm hoping to BF until at least 12 months.
Jo - yay for you with the routine. Sounds like you and baby Caleb are doing really well.
Bon - hope you had a lovely day with your Mum today!!! I bet she looooved meeting Nixon.
gypsy - Sam is the same, he doesn't cry when we hold him. He loves cuddles. Sam also feeds every 2 hours still for about 4 feeds per day - usually in the evening but sometimes it extends to around 2am which is tiring.
runner - Sam gets hiccups all the time. He did when I was pregnant too. We too have raised the mattress in his bassinet. I lean back at the start when I feed him because I think I have a fast letdown too. Sometimes he gets into a frenzy when he feeds though and goes really hard and fast (slurp slurp) and there is not much I can do to avoid that. Then when he is finished he usually lets out a big sigh (as well as some big burps) and has milk all over his face.
Meaghan - welcome! Looking forward to getting to know you and your William (and Kate too!).
Everyone else - Hi and big hugs. Am sure we are all finding it as hard as each other to keep up in here.
hi guys
Had an awesome day today with my mum and some family meeting Nixon for the 1st time..my nieces couldnt leave him alone..i took some photos of my niece feeding him,oh it makes me teary just looking at it..
Well im happy cos now we have the little man in a good routine,thanks Jo for sending me the routine sheet,hes pretty close to what you sent me,today i recognised his tired signs like yawning etc and put him down and whaddya know,i mustve worked it out cos lights out,hes been real good the last 4 night,he doesnt have an exact hour to work to but we are pretty close,and hes learning to self settle,yay on that one,that was more a night time issue..
Jo-we will have to catch up when im free and do that thing together,be very interesting,you might have more willpower than me..or can tweak a few things,ill see how i go the next 2 weeks and if its not as good as it is now then ill ring you.
Well im sooo tired,couldnt sleep much last night,metabolism on overdrive,hot,sweaty n insomnia,the only good thing was got quality time with DH for a cuddle and some US time..Tonight i was wanting to go bed but some morons behind me are having a party,and they are big maori's or samoan so i dont think ill be breaking up there party anytime soon,however if it continues til 1am i will ring the police.
Well thats it for me.
chat soon
bon
JO- Can you resend me that routine sheet,i deleted it by accident,if not sms me your email address and ill email you my email so you can email it back to me so i can print it...do i make sense?hehe
AJC - I forgot to bring extra breast pads when on our first outing out on Weds (just me and Ava) and I was b/feeding in front of the LC at the pharmacy she was assisting me in a corner (private corner) and the breast pad tore as I took it out! so i then needed a new one but remembered i didnt have any!! So just went straight home after the appointment incase i leaked LOL luckily i didnt that time.....
Ava and I are doing so well with the BFing now and enjoying it much more now that Ava is getting more and feeding much better and putting on weight
Also my cracked damaged nipple is healing so well!!
Thats cute Sam is giving little smiles now!!! And more alert and playing etc.... and you are sooo lucky your DH has been home for weeks with you, I'm so jealous! My DH got no time!! It's been so hard.....
MeLisa - thanks for that info re:tailbone pain. Was Emily posterior too? Ava was! It huuuurrttt..... I will have to see my physio soon might talk to my GP at my 6wk checkup about it too. I have to sit down on a pillow as our dining room chairs are too hard. Even sitting on our soft leather couch it hurts!!!! I have been doing my pelvic floors more lately hoping that helps. And yes, i too get a bit tired of the milk dripping everywhere and all over our bed sheets!!!! I can't believe how much can drip out!
I just had the most beautiful moment with my daughter.... She was feeding and after a good long 40min feed came off and just let her head rest against my arm and I looked at her and all this milk just dribbled out of her mouth and down her chin.... it was so cute!!! (and it wasnt a vomit!) Made me feel good that that's my milk and I'm feeding her with it!! It was just special. After all the issues with BF the last 3weeks it was really great moment.
Anyway, DH and I got hardly any sleep last night. Poor Ava has a cold My niece came over Thurs with the sniffles and now she's given it to Ava. Something we didn't need..... so she is crying alot and not sleeping. She hasn't slept since 5am her nose is all blocked and stuffy.
DH and I feel like we've had a big night out drinking and hungover when thats not the case at all!!! Hopefully tonight is better.
YAY!!!! 
it was bad.....cos meant she wasnt getting enuf of my milk..... i was sooooo glad to see her poo!!!!!!! dirty nappies dont bother us. lol. had a whopper today!!!!
I forgot to bring extra breast pads when on our first outing out on Weds (just me and Ava) and I was b/feeding in front of the LC at the pharmacy she was assisting me in a corner (private corner) and the breast pad tore as I took it out! so i then needed a new one but remembered i didnt have any!! So just went straight home after the appointment incase i leaked LOL luckily i didnt that time.....
She was feeding and after a good long 40min feed came off and just let her head rest against my arm and I looked at her and all this milk just dribbled out of her mouth and down her chin.... it was so cute!!! 
(and it wasnt a vomit!) Made me feel good that that's my milk and I'm feeding her with it!! It was just special. After all the issues with BF the last 3weeks it was really great moment.
her nose is all blocked and stuffy.
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