Fi - definitely give playgroup a shot. It's well worth it (and heaps cheaper than day care!). Also, when people come along with newborns to our playgroup, we all give Mummy a rest by giving loads of cuddles so it gives her a chance to go and play with the older children. It works so well for everyone (clucky women and for Mummy, hehehe). Most playgroups have some kind of "structure" aswell so you could put that to your Mum and sis (tho home-life has structure too... so I don't see the issue). I wouldn't put Jenna in day care if you're not 100% sure about it - it's just not worth the stress on you. Jenna gets plenty of interaction with other children her age with your MG, Eliza etc. etc.

Speaking of playgroups, I received a parcel today (actually, got a stack of parcels! Christmas is early!). My old playgroup back in Geelong sent me a lovely little going-away present that they didn't get to give to me because I was unable to attend on the last day before we moved. I also got a lovely card with special messages from each of them. Made me cry! They are such a lovely bunch of ladies and I miss them a stack! Gabby thoroughly enjoyed going there. We enjoy our new playgroup too but it's not the same *sigh*

Also got Gabby's Christmas Day outfit... soooo cute! I got a blanket embroidered for friends that have just had a little boy (through Michelle - mitch4now's little business). It's gorgeous. I'll have to send that off. Gab's secret santa arrived too. So exciting! Oh.. and Neil's wallet. The doofus left it in Geelong so my sis express posted it yesterday. Honestly, between his keys and his wallet (and all the other things he misplaces) I am over it!! LOL