Fi, I think of it this way. Any child that comes after Joel has got to be a breeze. God wouldn't give me 2 or 3 of them, surely

He says they haven't done anything. And so far I believe him. I have also had the talk about making sure he uses protection, this was prior to me finding out she was 13.

Do you think it's a bad thing to make sure he has condoms - like I am condoning it ?? Which I'm not. Or is it a good thing in that I am trying to make sure he is "careful" when he does do it. Because let's face it, he's a teenage boy with load's of hormones raging, even if it's not with this girl it's only a matter of time before it's with another.