Rianna has never liked cows milk, so drinks it very rarely ( was bf til 18 mths) Her paed said as long as she had 3 serves of dairy a day it was fine, so always has milk on her cereal, cheese and yogurt to make up the quota.
Some kids I know are raised entirely on jar food, and come out Ok, so I say just go with the flow, because like most Phases it wont last forever, just offer "real" food first, and when that is rejected give her the other stuff, so you know when the phase is passing..