Hi girls, just a quick selfish post from me, I was amazed when I jumped back on here at how much you girls have posted! Geez, give a girl a chance to catch up!! tee he he!

I had to go to a funeral yesterday for a friends baby, she died at 13 days old, lots of complications when she was born, it was traumatic for them both with both receiving blood transfusions and then bub had kidney and liver failure, she faught on for 13 days, but passed away sadly about a week ago. It was just awful, my poor friend and her hubby are ambulance officers and they spend their lives saving other people's lives, and for this to happen to them is just not right. It was their first baby too, just awful.

Has anyone been through anything similar? Any suggestions on something that I can do to help them out in the days/weeks/months to come? I know that phoning etc lets them know that I care, but I want to be able to actually do something for them.....

Other than that, Coby is feral, chucking tantrums all the time and Im just not coping with that, I feel bad for not liking it considering what my friend has just had happen to her, I should be cherishing everything that Coby does, not thinking that Im hard done by...

Also AF has arrived YAY!! At least the acupuncture is working, funny how I went to her on Monday and its all working again straight after that.....I have to wait a while for my next appointment, its not until 28 October, she's going off to have a baby (how dare she - tee he he!) so will have to wait until she's back on board again, but she's given me some stuff to do and take in the meantime...Not sure if I want any more kids after the way Coby's been lately!!!!

Anyway, hope you are all ok, and will try and keep up from now on....