AMM thanks for the site- it has answered some of my questions already- and i am not even half wway through it. Cant wait to get to the day sleep bits, which is where the problem is.
Although touch wood, She is alseep in her cot now during the day- an settled down by herself, which never happens. maybe this trip of driving did her some good it learning how to sleep during the day!!!!
Thanks again for sharing.