Gabysmum I can totally understand where your coming from, some days I feel that nobody has taken any notice of what I've had to say, but I also agree with Bath sometimes I've been at fault and not replied to everyone except the most recent ones and that you I apoligise if I have offended or upset you by not replying. I hope that you do decide to come back in here as you are a June mummy and would be sorely missed .

Jaspen I had to laugh at your post, because I did the exact same thing not so long ago. I was getting new swimmers for summer and I tried them on and looked in the mirror and nearly cried when I saw how big I am. You just have to remember that you have just had a baby 3 mths ago and also have a toddler to look after and they don't care how mummy looks and I'm sure your DH doesn't either. So don't beat yourself up about it, it will come off sooner or later.

Can someone please email me the phone numbers of all the Junies again when we got a new computer I forgot to get the phone No's from it, thanks.

hugs xoxo