Oh I just can't resist adding my two cents worth LOL Rory regarding having more than one child: I've found that having a gap definately helps... feeding Niall is very tricky and basically unsafe most of the time as Wade really gets into mischief and I find that I just can't be bothered chasing after him with Niall still attached. Life with 3 is chaotic and after trying to nut out different strategies I'm now firmly of the opinion that unless you hire extra help around the house it just can't be kept under control... it's just impossible... I'm a fairly good time manager however I won't run myself ragged every day and even if I did it all still wouldn't get done to the standard i prefer. babies equal chaos unless you have regular help... and remember I have Verity... life would be much worse if I didn't... Simone has already testified to that! Anyhow... your DH does have a point though: from my experience the younger you are the better (in dealing with the physical demands especially)... so there would be pros and cons for launching straight back into it and waiting for a couple of years like IK... if confused make a list, that's my policy.

ETA: I applied MooGoo infant scalp cream to Niall's mild case of cradle cap and it hasn't come back.