IK - I feel that you are attacking Neeny without really understanding her situation. Would you say "BFing didn't mean much to you" to someone that had had a masectomy??? Honestly, right now I feel like telling you to pull your head in. Actually, I'm going to do it. Some of us couldn't breastfeed. Not because we didn't want to but because of medical / physical issues. Neeny was expressing HER feelings as others had. I don't feel that your attack was warranted. I appreciate that you are opinionated and like telling everyone exactly what you think. Sometimes (often) you come across as though you feel like you need to be a preacher. You don't. You have continued to ask Neeny if her comment was needed. YES by god it was. Other people were expressing their feelings so Neeny expressed hers. She did not say YOU were a barnyard cow did she? She said SHE is not a barnyard cow. I think that you are so passionate about your BFing success, and good on you, that you have let it warp the way that you perceive the opinions of others. I'm glad you co sleep and enjoy all these things. I personally don't co-sleep. I must be a bad mum right? I don't BF. I started solids early. God there I've fallen several rungs of the mothering according to IK ladder. How will you ever view me? Glad you are so confident in your mothering to take to attacking others on here personally. I was watching this thread hoping it would not turn this way but it has. I feel saddened that Neeny was attacked when she is such a darling woman. I feel that I can no longer be a part of this group.

Good luck ladies. Neeny, hugs to you hun, you didn't deserve what you got. And Nerdy, you know where to find me.

Farewell.