All I can say is that the "suck on this" article has made me feel like a failure that is doing the worst thing in the world for Ryan! And I know that wasn't your intention Kelly but that's been the result for me.

When I talk about "sleeping through" I mean Ryan sleeps from 8:30 or 9 til 4am. (over 5 hours) and as for feeding him formula, he was constantly crying from hunger and feeding constantly even though the latch was right (I never felt pain) and as soon as he went to formula this stopped and he became a contented baby and started putting on weight. (hasn't been weighed but he's growing out of his clothes so I take this as an indicator).

That's just my feedback at the moment. Maybe I'm taking it to heart today because I am already feeling depressed and like the worst woman in the world to be his mum even though he's being "perfect" and has just put himself to sleep in his bouncer.