Nic - i ignore my DH when he comes around and makes comments like hat, especially when its my house!! I ignore him until he apologises, and then normally guilt him into giving me some me time...

IK - what a mammoth post!! How p*ssed would you have been if you went to post and lost it LOL (im such a meanie for laughing at that thought!!)

Well, i got some me time tonight. DH came around about 6, and i walked out as he walked in. Left him with Xander just out of the bath, declan just getting up from a late nap and Anneliese screaming for a feed. I went to a cafe for dinner, and bought some mags. Sat for 1.5 hours just reading and slowly eating (Rory - the warm chicken salad at Sam's isnt too bad!!) Went home and MIL called us, FIL had a very rare hereditary blood disease, 100% hereditary from paternal... and his dad doesnt have it. His sons are being tested (he's only dh's step dad, but FIL has 2 teenage sons of his own) Means he will eventually get very sick. I dont know about it, but will let you guys know more as i do... Im pretty upset as FIL is such a nice guy. And i think he's more upset about his dad not having it and it being 100% paternally hereditary...