Mel I agree with Simone no drinks from say 3-4hrs before bed except for sips, get her to go to the toilet before bed like you do then wake her to go to the toilet before you go to bed and if Marley wakes after you go to bed say early morning get her up again and try her on the loo. She doesn't need to be fully awake just enough for you to guide her to the loo. She will soon get the hang of it, it's just patience and repetitiveness, I've read somewhere that it can take up to when they are 5-6 to be fully toilet trained. Hope some of this helps. Kailen was my longest so far he was fully toilet trained just after his 3rd b'day, but Lockie was still having accidents if he had to hold on to long up until he was 31/2.

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