enigma - oscar sleeps with us, either between us with a bunny rug stretched out under his head, or on my chest with a layer or two removed (he gets sticky from body heat otherwise!). he sleeps really well with us and makes tiny grunty noises whilst still asleep when he's getting hungry, so i can get him propped for a feed before the crying needs to start. i then sit up with hum curled into my chest until he goes to sleep again, so i slip back down with him on my chest it's really lovely and we just dtd outside of bedtime hours.
btw, i'm fitting into clothes i havent worn for 3 years - i think oscar is sucking out the fat that the depo ralovera made me gain in 2003! unfortunately, due to bust size, i also look like a porn star...