Thanks girls, I hear you on BB been were I know all my real friends are. You girls have been thru all mine and everyone elses ups and downs, it's great in here.

Simone my 4 yr old and 2 yr old do the hitting thing to my oldest doesn't which is good, I think sometimes that it may be the testostrone floating thru their little bodies.

Bath what is In-Liven, I've never heard of it before and how much is it? Your right about everything as usual which makes me feel better. i think everything has just boiled to a head today and I've had a complete meltdown this afternoon.

Thanks again for all your support.

hugs xoxo