Baths - I'm glad wade is having a party, i've been reading (in Sydney's Child) just how out of control they can get, with jumping castles, performing artists, presents for guests and food for child and parent... they can get out of control.. no wonder you were in two minds - if his friends are having HUGE parties it would be hard for you to compete (I'm assuming you are not going to do all the aftorementioned things)...but even food for 30 will be expensive - I saw a cute finger food idea for childrens parties, it was different fruit cubed on sticks (like kerbabs) - cheap, healthy and they looked great. Good luck with the planning.

Candy - I always make food for my friends birthday - home cooked meals are a dying art. I also bought her a facial and a baby sitting voucher (for the duation of the facial) so I can mind her 3yo while she enjoys herself. She loved it.. Hard for her being born on 11th of September.

In the USA they make "Christmas Cookies", and hand them out to all their neihbours and co-workers...I think I will make them this year as gifts for my friends - saw a great Chocholate Chip and Macadamia nut cookie recipe in Better Homes and Gardens mag that I want to try.

Baby Bjorn - well today Ally decided she LOVED it, we went for a trial quick walk around the block, but she liked it so much she feel asleep, so doggy and I went to teh dog park and his best friend was there and they played in the mud - doggy style... should go wash him off now..he is covered head to toe (labs are self cleaning, but I think he will get cold).