FF - sorry I forgot to respond to you! Have a lovely weekend with greats!
I still try to feed to sleep but it doesnt work so well now. I usually end up putting her down for a <5 min cry and she drops off soon afterwards. If she doesnt I pick her up for a tick and cuddle her then put her back down and say "Sleep time now!" and leave. Doesnt take very long at all. She only has the odd night where she needs more than that.

Corelly - Clam shells are great. T loves hers now.
We have a musical Lamaze octopus and a proper xylophone for T and some In the night garden and Little Miss Somersault (book) as we have the toy (from one of the boys female friends ages ago). Mum wants to get her an Upsy Daisy doll as my mum is determined to make her a doll loving girl ( as I was a tom boy and liked stuffed animals and cars, trains etc better).