We're slowing starting to build up a bit of a group here, it takes time to even feel like you can sit at a computer i think. Hi to all the girls from my belly buddies group and to the new ladies also. I hope you are enjoying your babies and things are progressing nicely.

The last few days for me have been difficult, I was having some good nights and then not so good nights with Charlie and i could handle that because i was getting sleep but the last few nights haven't been very good ones. Charlie's feeding is ALL OVER THE PLACE and i know he's a newborn so i can't expect too much routine to it all but he's wanting to feed pretty much every hour and a half!! His feeds are really quick and most of the time i struggle to get him to have more than one side. For how long do i just go with that or should i try and influance when he feeds a bit more? I think i'm going to call the lactation nurse at the hospital and have a chat, i just feel silly sometimes.
THe real restlessness is at night and like you M23 i just can't let him make too much noise because he wakes his brother up, so i give in and just feed him to make him happy. Last night he wouldn't settle after his 2am feed so after an hour i just laid him down next to me and he was there until 4am this morning. He fed at 4am and then at 6am because i couldn't not and then woke up an hour after i'd gotten him to sleep, i managed to resettle him and he's just waking now so we managed to make it to 3 hours!!! I forgot how hard it is to have a newborn.

I better go get him, talk soon