Hi Richelle and welcome. I think that there is really no other way than letting her sort out her routine and you slot in with it. The only routine we have is generally around feed times - that is we feed then play then sleep. The other routine is in the evening when we feed, play, bath then put down for the night. Other than that, she is in control. WE try to stick to 3 hourly feeds as a minimum but sometimes she has other ideas! My DH and I never really had a routine because of our work either so this semi routine is new to us!!

Caro, yay on the sleep, how did it go last night.

Ooops, a little girl want me.....