[QUOTE=~Saram~;838933]Well I am back and still sane Xander slept well, no more vomit hooray and Ari slepted reasonably well. She has been a little better today. Thanks for the thoughts but it's not that bad DH does his best adn DS is just so wonderful, I think I was just having a whinge :-)

Caro - grr about the house, don't they realise real people live there! Its so annoying isn't it.
Ok no idea what else was said have to go back and re-read - oh just discovered if you click quote then you get to see all the messages as you reply - love it.

Cass - thanks, it's good to know someone is there to have a chat to. Oskar will love that paint even more in a few months. Being a teacher we always have heaps of paint and playdough in the house :-)

Karina- thanks I will try that holding facing out and see how it goes. I think that is Ari's problem too, she is getting over stimulated and overtired. Oh yeah on the video!

Rachel - glad to hear Grace is sleeping better. She is absolutely very photogenic Ari has been doing those little sit ups too - she is trying sooo hard to sit up.

Jomarie - Oh I wish ari would sleep like that during the day! Hope he keeps it up for you.

Gosh I'm having a shooker, this is my third edit. Meant to say - took ari for her 4mth check up and she weighs in at ......7.890kg OMG I thought she would be around 7kg but not nearly 8! now wonder those 00 are not fitting properly. she is now 63.5cm long which is only 2.5cm in 7-8wks is that normal? OK now I'm finished I think :-)