Rayray - (((HUGS))) - I understand your pain....when you don't get much of a break with bubby, you just have NO time to do anything else! Luckily my DH is home with me, but I feel really aweful asking him "pick up this please, wipe down that please, hang out that wash please, check on the kids please". So, I go crazy in my short time off from Reuben to quickly make the bed, straighten up the lounge room, wipe kitchen benches....etc. Its just such a tender issue, and I really wish your husband will understand. Does he not see what your day entails on the weekends?