Dee - just read your news .... I would be getting a second opinion if I were you, your OB seems to be very single minded. Try to stay positive as you are aware many women have a VBAC so obviously it can be done ... do some research i am sure there will be another OB out there that will help you :hugs: ..... Also, don't feel like you are missing out if it doesn't happen for you, you are still carrying this bubba & he is growing in your belly being loved from the moment of conception, having a VB is only a small part of the whole circle xx