nah didn't ruin it just peeved me off some seen as i had booked for 40 people and 19 turned up but ryan was so cute all dolled up and he really played it up for all the people in the church and for the cameras afterwards i'll have to get my sister to email me some photos mine didn't turn out so good we had a lovely lunch afterwards and he received dome really lovely gifts and we had the most delish cake ( mud cake ) hmmmm so much for my diet there is always next week ( in one photo of us i look like i'm at least 7 months pg again so it is definately time i pull my act together for sure )