Welcome Ang...
I've tried to make Shauns food a bit lumpier... For his sweet stuff I just mash a banana into it.
For savoury meals I had some tiny pasta from a deli - it's REALLY tiny (smaller than rice). That mixes in with his meals well. I also bought some rissolli (?) pasta at the supermarket which was the tiniest pasta they had on the shelf.

I give him toast in fingers with crusts cut off. My hubby hand fed him his roast meal last week... lamb, chicken, peas, carrot, potato. He probably wouldn't eat that if it wasn't hand fed to him though

A great site which shows pictures of the quantity and consistancy of food is ... can't give a link... so go to google and type Children's hospital at Westmead. Then hit the Parents tab at the top... then the fact sheets on the left. At the bottom of that fact sheet is FOOD... This information was given to me by the sleep school as I was confused about what to feed Shaun.

Lea... good luck with 2nd chance offers.

Shazz... I hope Ryan improves. It's horrible when our little babies are sick...