Kim~ Ryan only settles himself when he wants to and i',m not going to push the issue he is only little for such a short time enjoy them while they let you i say but again that is only my opinion you do what feels right for you both, what feels right now may change as she gets older so go with your gut feeling, i was just saying to my Dh last night about how much of a failure i feel with Ryan when i read all your posts and your all doing so well and me well i'm sure Ryan isn't happy until he has me in tears at least once a day sometimes more so right now all of you are my inspiration