I sometimes wonder if all the temperature taking and charts etc put more pressure on people TTC. I couldn't be bothered doing it... and wouldn't have a clue where to start.

I would just make a note of when the first day of my period was, then worked out ovulation dates (google ovulation calendar) - which is two weeks after the 1st day of AF. And I just tried to DTD around that time. And when I say tried - I mean it. Yariv & I were so knackered, and just couldn't be bothered half the time. We are definately NOT rabbits. Both times I fell pregnant - Yariv has said "When did that happen??".

When you consider my age, being overweight, and that I had one useless ovary the first time, it is a wonder I fell pregnant so easily. But I am 90% sure it's because I didn't try too hard, and I was so relaxed about the whole thing. I just enjoyed DTD... and oila!!

Although I really feel for the women who TTC for years and years. It must be hard to want something so badly. How often do you hear about women who spend a fortune on IVF, then when they stop trying so hard they fall pregnant naturally.

I think stress is the greatest disease of our era.