sheree - yeah, elmo cake sounds good, i wouldn't be doing much if i were you either! Sounds like you have got one big strong boy in there. Oh my goodness, i just looked at the pic, you sure havent got a petite little one in there!! You look fantastic though, you muct be feeling great only putting on 9kgs this time. Arch used to really beat me up too in the last couple of months.

Archie's birthday went really well on Saturday, he got lots of Duplo and Playdoh toys. It is his real birthday tomorrow!

I am actually a bit beside myself atm, I am just so completely exhausted by Archie, his constant clingyness, Jay never doing even close to his share of the parenting, and the whole sleeping situation, Its been me and arch in our bed and jay in archies bed all week, it is really starting to affect our relationship as we never get us time anymore. He is on night shifft this week, so he will be tired and grumpy and even less help than usual! It just really *****s me sometimes that i am always home with Arch and he is always either working or out til all hours drinking with mates, and then mopes around the house hungover all weekend, GGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sorry guys really needed to get that out tonight before i chuck a major tanty lol