i agree Christine that a funeral is great closure for everybody. I agree that kids should go to funerals if they are old enough to understand a bit about death. It is so great that your mum organised to have Erin at the funeral, thats fantastic. I really hope Jay's Grandpa hangs on for another year or so, as Archie adores him and if he is that much older we might be able to teach him about life and death a bit.
I think i am catching Archies cold, have a blocked up head, YAY! Archie slept through last night, so he is a different kid this morning