Kim - OMG!!! Congrats on your little boy Nate, love the name, hope you are recovering well xxx

Tania - Thanks for the well wishes, things are a little strained between Jay and I atm, but nothing awful. Arch isn't coping well with the seperation at all, very violent and angry these days which is awful to see and very hard to cope with every day, but we will get through it. Love the pic of Ashlea in your ticker. Goodness surely it hasn't been 7 months since Ash was born??!! LOL at you telling Jayden to hit the lady, thats something I have said to Arch too, some people just deserve it!

sara - Glad you are enjoying Uni, it is a bummer that all the boring subjects are in the first semester, at lest you get them out of the way though. I have given jay too many chances to change things and it hasn't happened, so I have decided enough is enough I can't do this anymore, the guilt I felt about hurting him has turned to anger at the way he has been over the last few years, so I am feeling okay about it all atm LOL. Arch and I are living in Mount Gambier SA, an hour away from Jay.

Shazz - Hi, and hope Uni is going well for you.

Jay has taken Archie on holiday this week, I have never been without Arch for more than 24 hours so this will be a test. Jay has never ever done any childcare on the numerous trips away from home that we had so I am giggling inside myself thinking of how he will be realising why I get stressed on occasion LOL! Knowing Jay though, he will just get drunk and let my Aunty take care of Arch. I have plenty to keep me busy wghile Arch is away tough. Its my first day of Uni tomorrow which I am very excited about, plus my sister is being induced tomorrow night and I am her birth partner, so the next few days will be jam packed with excitement!! I am staying at my Mums tonight so that I dont get lonely inmy unit by myself for the first time.

I get my new car tomorrow, I am very excited about that too! I think I have over used the word excitement in this post.....that can only be a good thing though.