Babies born November 1st-15th 2010 #1

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Hi Ladies,

Danni, I havent got any photos on bb only on fb. If you would like me to add you just pm me your full name I will add you. btw FF or BF is important however after 6 months a baby needs more nutrition than what FF or BF can give him or she.. Also you might want to try adding some EBM to some of your foods as maybe the flavour is too strong for bubs as he is only just starting out. I mix my vegies with FF when P started out. Now he is a porky and I cant sit at the table unless he has food too..

Kazz, hello over there.... Im doing ok thank you.. 5 weeks of sick kids and then I got it!! arghh its done my head in.. I demanded drugs for all of us!! lol I think we did well to do 5 weeks but it was just getting worse... Is Macey teething? I had the same problem with P, I tried different thing and in the end I did cc and he seems to be good now.

afm, alot has happen in the last few weeks with me. My kids have been really sick, I got it too and dh. I took the kids 6 times to the doctors!! I was told sinus infection, sinus infection, bronchitis, whooping cough, asmtha and bronchitis... So we have... BRONCHITIS!!! Yay!! now we are on the mend!!

I know I have said a few things about dh on here but things have become extremely worse. I have spent many many nights crying and woried sick about my kids. I do everything, I mean everything! I do the finances, the house work, the kids, the cooking and cleaning.. I mean everything. I might as well be a single mum. I ask/yell at him to help and it just falls on deaf ears.

He changed his medication 2 months ago and he said was feeling tired.. He was sleeping like 10+ hours.. When he would wake up he would fall asleep again! He has given me no support since before his mother got sick, over a year ago. TBH he only thinks of himself anyways..

Last Monday was DD birthday and again he was selfish and so enough was enough. I think it was more that he was being selfish on his daughters birthday, a day that is so exciting when your 4 years old.

well the day was exciting we packed up our things and moved out.. Yes I moved out.... Firstly I told him to get out and not to come back.. then I packed our things and moved into my parents house

I rang his dr and told him what had been happening, i knew he had an apointment coming up. So it works out he has Clinical Depression.

Im not sure how to feel or if I can excuse his behavour... I know most of it will be part of the CD but this has been going on for years. I'll never forget when I was pg with P he turned to me and said he didnt want the baby anymore.. Can you really forgive that? or the after effect of making me so sick I thought I was going to mc, I was so ill I broke all the blood vessels in my face..

My sil (dh's brother's wife..) has been really supportive and great.. Infact I have been getting calls from his cousins telling me they are 100% behind me! me! like hello your meant to stick with your family!! I never realised just how many people watched me do everything, it really makes me feel embarrassed. I know thats weirod to say but I do.

I havent cried since I left my home..

Our families have come together and dh acts like nothing has happened. His mother is on another plant, she is back to her selfish ways and really doesnt care what happens. His father wants us to work it out.

I dont know if there is anyway we can work this out but I guess we have to take it one day at a time.. who knows, maybe things with stay the same or things will improve.. One thing is for sure... I'm not going back to the way things were..

sorry for the vent.. but I needed to vent..