I am clucky! But I do like a gap. There is 3 years between my oldest 2 and 2 1/2 between my boys and I prefer the 3 years. I would like 5 years. I am not back to normal at all. I have lost the wight but I am very tired and somewhat depressed so I am wanting to take my time. I think it takes me a while to overcome pregnancyand childbirth topped ith caring for a newborn, etc...!!!